smth dat keeps me moving on =)

I hope it keeps you move on too! =)

Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio .



"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written.



My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:



1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.



2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.



3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.



4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.



5. Pay off your credit cards every month.



6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.



7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.



8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.



9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.



10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.



11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.



12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.



13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.



14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.



15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.



16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.



17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.



18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.



19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.



20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.



21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.



22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.



23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.



24. The most important sex organ is the brain.



25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.



26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'



27. Always choose life.



28. Forgive everyone everything.



29. What other people think of you is none of your business.



30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.



31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.



32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.



33. Believe in miracles.



34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.



35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.



36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.



37. Your children get only one childhood.



38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.



39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.



40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.



41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.



42. The best is yet to come...



43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.



44. Yield.



45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

having this thoughts about the road less taken...
hmm...

am i ready for it? time for mroe prayers =)

new favourite cartoon of the year:

TANGLED!!!

ahahahahhaa


if u guys feel stress n have an hour n a half to spare, go watch!! it's so funny n so touching!! *giggles*

dis week's been crazy, been having crazy high ups n downs
bt I'm glad everything's starting to get better now =)

WE CAN ROCK DIS FINALSS!! JIA YOU JIA YOU!! =)

if u feel stress, try going out for a walk, kick on the snow n release all ur tension!
Life might be challenging bt it is gud, dun forgt to smile while ur overcoming those hard times!!
it jux seem to make it less hard at times =)

BIG SMILE =)

A phrase that Facebook apps generated for me:

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to,
doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

=)

from facebook

1、“太漂亮的女人最后总是孤单一人，因为她不肯向爱情妥协；太帅气的男人最后总是落在不太漂亮的女人手上，因為他向生活妥协。因此太漂亮的女人和太帅气的男人总是无法长久一起的，因为他们都习惯被围绕被取悦。太漂亮的女人，是堪折的花，越早遇到越好；太帅气的男人，是待熟的果，最好别要太早遇上。”
ps，幸好我不太漂亮，哈哈…yeah

2、“小时候，希望自己快点长大，长大了，却发现遗失了童年；单身时，开始羡慕恋人的甜蜜，恋爱时，怀念单身时的自由。很多事物，没有得到时总觉得美好，得到之后才开始明白：“我们得到的同时也在失去。”
ps，有得有失，淡然面对

3、“在爱的世界里，没有谁对不起谁，只有谁不懂得珍惜谁。 能够说出的委屈便不算委屈，能够抢走的爱人便不算爱人。 不说出委屈就只能委屈自己，不放走不爱你的人就得不到爱你的人。”
ps，在流泪的时候觉得委屈，其实心里已经慢慢学会坚强

4、“人生的路上，我们都在奔跑，我们总在赶超一些人，也总在被一些人超越。人生的要义，一是欣赏沿途的风景，二是抵达遥远的终点；人生的秘诀，寻找一种最适合自己的速度，莫因疾进而不堪重荷，莫因迟缓而空耗生命；人生的快乐，走自己的路，看自己的景，超越他人不得意，他人超越不失志。”
ps，在绝望时，要抬头看看天，想想存在的意义

5、“有一天，友情和爱情碰见。爱情问友情：世上有我了，为什么还要有你的存在？友情笑着说：爱情会让人们流泪，而友情的存在就是帮人们擦干眼泪！”
ps，秤子打心眼里最重视朋友，哪怕不联系，不多言，其实也会很依赖

6、“我很爱你，却不知道该如何靠近你，所以觉得离开也是可以的。并没有什么不同，结果反正都是这样，是好是坏都不重要。重要的是我曾经迷恋你，就像我迷恋一把晚清的雕花椅。”
ps，安妮的话总是让人在感到温暖的同时有一丝心痛，爱是一门要耗费一生去学习、经营的学问

7、“我想给你幸福，却走不进你的世界。我想用我的全世界来换取一张通往你的世界的入场券，不过，那只不过是我的一厢情愿而已。我的世界，你不在乎；你的世界，我被驱逐。我真的喜欢你，闭上眼，以为我能忘记，但流下的眼泪，却没有骗到自己。”
ps，答应自己，要独自承受这一切。

8、“不要让幸福擦肩而过：最懂你的人，总是会一直在身边守护你，不让你有一丝的委屈；真正爱你的人，也许不会说许多爱你的话，却会做许多爱你的事。如果发现身边有这样的人，请你好好珍惜……幸福不会时时等着你，爱你的人和你爱的人不是随时可以出现，好好把握，不要让自己和幸福擦肩而过”
ps，期待懂我的人

9、“人生最美最不能逊色的风景应该是努力。努力是人生的一种精神状态，是对生命的一种赤子之情。努力是拥有之母，拥有是努力之子，一心努力可谓条条大路通罗马。所以，与其规定自己一定要成为一个什么样的人物，获得什么东西，不如磨练自己做一个努力的人。”
ps，早就该明白，最美的不是成功的那一刻，而是事后回想奋斗过程中的艰辛

10、“人生，没有永远的伤痛，没有过不去的坎。还是让我们学学杨柳，看似柔弱却坚韧，狂风吹不断；太刚强的树干，却在风中折枝。学会放弃，学会承受，学会坚强，学会微笑，那是一种别样的美丽！适当的放弃，是人生优雅的转身。”
ps，没有过不去的坎，让自己跨越的姿势美一点。

interesting weekend

saw a meteor on thurs, a very short one =)

gt a large size bubble tea for the price of a small one =P

Went into another dimension with julia in King's college circle ;)

Wonderful time spent with torontorians =)

something else happened as well, bt let's jux keep it in the other place k, bloggy? =)

Hectic week coming up!

** note to self: need to do more prayers =)

aaaaaa~~~~~~

I might sound weird tonight, but bear with me, I'm under some assignment stress!
LOL!

talking bad about ppl really makes me feel soooo bad in the end,
so challenge of the time: no bad talks!!! only gud talks!!!

count down to the so call free time: nah, it's better to not count for my case cox i'll slack off earlier before it ends XD

Once again, dis is a very weird post, so pls dun read (and I put dis in the end, very smart rite?) XD

Thumb Wrestling

Never underestimate a stroke patient,
thumb wrestling with dem can be very challenging!!
today, was the day i experience defeat...
dis day shall not b remember by human mankinds (y am i posting dis hor?) XD

Patient vs Hexen: 4 - 0
Lose gao gao =P

Mondays =)

Mondays are forever so inspiring to me =)
gt more strong tight hugs!
feels really warm =)
I love hugs =)
Have you given someone a hug today? =)

oways wanted to blog properly bt oways fail =P

no cure for laziness in me d kut =P

I'm a popcorn!!! hahahahahhaa

bt dun eat me! or else u'll get food poisoning! =P

sholdnt be too greedy... be grateful of wat u hav right now =)

今天心情很好 不知道为什么 teehee~~ =P

发祥有人不准收承诺，说要星期四 msn，tsk tsk tsk =P

Hahahahahahaha

Gt my clearance on x-ray! My lungs were perfectly normal!! which makes me wonder about the negative results i had on the mantoux test...hmm....

Got a placement in the mental health hospital!! yay!! (ok, dat sounds like i gt admitted into a mental health hospital... rephrase!) Manage to get a volunteer position in the mental health hospital! Looking forward to volunteer thr!! SHOOOOOOO EXCITED!!! hahahaaha

Life's been gud so far! Had a yummy thanksgiving dinner with Mr Azroy's family =) Feel bad for not finishing the monopoly game with Arman... Sorry Arman, will play with u again sometime in the future! Had a great time there! Felt the warmth of a family thr =) *homesick* =P Time to giv mama a call! =)

Well, it's time to head bak to assignments n exams! How I wish classes are like wat julie's pastor said, sitting outdoors in a circle and talk about life! I'm sure i will learn much better den jux completing assignments!

Bt still, assignments n exams are to make sure that we understand the syllabus =) u will still have to learn n study the materials anyway, so why not studying it in a happy mood? =)

Learnt smth dis week: As more of a hand-on person, I've been oways prefer hands-on experience in learning new things, hence the volunteering work. I've been oways wondering why do we need to study when most of the things are not needed in work or are already in the textbook? Why don't we jux learn things practically? If we need more information, there's always books there for us to review from. Well, the funny thing is, I found my answer through volunteering and talking with ppl. Therapists have undergo the process of studying and because they do well in their studies and know their stuff well, they are able to diagnose people on the spot. Who would want to hire a therapist who is unsure about everything and need to go through tonnes of book while trying to diagnose or treat you compare to someone who is experience and have every information in mind while treating u? It shows dat we need to learn the basics well bfore we pursue to the practical work! (Hmm... i tink i'm confusing ppl more...) well in short, learn ur stuff well in order to b able to do the things you like! (you mux noe ur theories well in order to apply dem, if nt u'll jux gonna mess things up!)

Toronto trip was awesome! Glad to see that everyone's doing well thr (I hope)
Will try to spend more time in prayers for everyone =)

P/s: I really start to find prayers really helps. =)

Did not pass the test... have to go for x-ray.. hopefully it'll end soon...

Classes so far

Well, classes have started and these are the few things that happened:
1) There was webct, here comes moodle!
2) Though classes are lesser than last year, I seem to be busier...hmm...
3) The president of AMS uses Justin Bieber is coming to QUEENS!!! as the headline of the newsletter hoping that people will actually read the email...
4) ISV is coming to Queens again, hopefully I can talk to them personally =)
5) Room is still in a mess! Hopefully I can get myself a mattress by tomorrow!! (though Razan said it should b the first thing to get when u move in...)
6) Smth funny is going around here... It's like a cycle, I rmb ur name, u dun rmb mine, I dun rmb ur name (or cant recognize u at all) u rmb my name... (feeling bad for nt rmb ppl's name now...note to self: RMB NAMES OF PPL WHO RMB U!! DUN B SOOOOOOOO EVIL!!)
7) Kingston has the weirdest weather I have ever seen! It's getting a lot colder than this time last year...Aish said winter might come early dis year... Hopefully not... *fingers crossed*

Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go.

Sunset~~

Watch sunset with Pheik Vay and Jia Yi jux now....
It set faster than I thought!
Much faster...
U can see the whole of it 5 minutes ago, bt 5 min later, it's totally gone!

whoah! Time flies eh? (oh the sun tries to 偷懒 by moving faster to finish his job?)

I tink d sun mux have moved faster... want to go bak n relax...

王力宏『柴米油鹽醬醋茶』

Really love the mv of this song.....
Love the idea of how simple love can be,
老夫老妻看着对方的眼神还是充满着爱,那是多么难能可贵的事情啊!

Makes me wonder how many ppl can do dis?
It's such a simple thing, yet not many can achieve it.
Looking at the couple enjoying each other's company, is such a nice thing.
Sitting together and eat, talking about each other's day.
Thinking the best for each other, trying to cheer up the other half.
I wonder how many ppl can do it?

一个简简单单的爱,有多少人懂呢?

Wat I wanna do in 2nd year

well... 2nd year's gonna b a bz year... took a lot of psych n hlth subjects..
BUT,
I really wanna get involved in more uni activities and i really wanna work to save more money for travelling!! So many things to do! so little time!! hmm..

Things to do:
a) yacht club
b) queen's band
c) horse riding
d) part time work
e) stay in dean list (which will b 10x times harder den 1st year i think)

hopefully getting bz will make me more discipline n less time to think non sense =P

Yacht club or no yacht club?

i wanna learn sailing!! n kignston is the best place u can gt to learn sailing...
since i'm, in kingston, y dun i take sailing lessons?
bt it's so expensive!!! almost 600CAD a year!!!
hmm... is it worth the price or no?

Wat's life?

Been doing a lot of thinking recently....

wat's life?

i understand the quote of living life to the max,

i understand that no matter wat ur mood is rite now, time is still going on... so, u wan to hav ur next min in happiness or sadness...

bt.. it's oways easier to say it den have it done...

lalalalalala~ I've ditch dis thought out now..

so end of thinking about dis~~ moving on~~ lalalala~~ =P

A meaningful blog from my dear cousin

I read dis post from my cousin, find it very interesting...

nvr thought my cousin have grown up so much d... hahahahahaha

ting ting~~~ =)

我的一个女朋友上自习,太凉了,
她发短信让男朋友去送衣服给她,男孩打游戏拒绝了.
这件事让她郁闷了两天然后气消了,
虽然是件小事,不会影响两人以后, 但是她说,
她会记住, 以后自习一定会带衣服,
如果哪天忘记了, 即使冷死,也不再会叫他送.




我很能明白这种感觉.
很久以前,一个女孩某天夜里,
心情特别低回,特别想念某个人的安慰,
然后半夜时分,打电话给他,说很想听他说话,
电话那头的他从睡梦中醒来,不耐烦的敷衍她.
从此以后,她再没有伤心无助时给他打过电话.

That's me...


我发现女人身上有一种猫性.
小猫在撒娇或者做错事的时候,需要别人的安慰和教导,
如果这时主人打击了它,它会狠狠记住,不会再犯.
女人,有着猫一样的自尊.特别是陷入爱情里的女人...

在别人看来无关紧要,其实需要呵护,
因为爱,已经让她的心变得柔软.
她的这一点自尊,其实是要你对她的在乎.

我看过一句特别经典的话,
有时候女人需要一个男人,就像逃机者需要降落伞,
如果此时此刻他不在,那么以后他也不必在了.
真的,就是这样.

如果哪天猫咪用坚定的眼神看着你说我可以的时候，
那么猫咪已经做好了离开的准备了!
女人是要独立，
但是独立到不再会对你不讲道理的撒娇任性，
不再会无厘头的缠着你，
你觉得你对于她同路人还有多大区别呢?

女人的猫性不是每个男人都有幸看到的，
因为喜欢你，在意你才对你发出特有的咕噜噜声，
其他人只能听到猫喵喵叫，
而这一声咕噜噜只是为你而生，
有几个人会明白呢？？

我们爱折腾
只是爱折腾他而已。
如果有一天
我们慢慢发现自己可以一个人玩都不觉得闷
很久不捏他也不会手痒
只是静静的待在他旁边
不再想着法儿去玩它
谁能知道那时的我们该有多难过呢

男人总会说女人无理取闹
说女人没事找事
说女人不讲道理
说女人不可理喻

为什么不去想想
她在对待别人的时候
为什么不是这样的态度

没错
如果有一天
她不再对你撒娇
她不再对你任性
她不再缠着你跟你要这个要那个
她不再因为你的任何事情微笑或者皱眉

那么
你就永远的失去她了!

New change =) ( a nice one)

Wuhoo!! All I can say is thr's a whole new change is everyone's blog!

everyone is more n more cheerful! =)

So I guess mayb d season did affect ppl's mood....

sesonal affective disorder.... dat's wat psych told me...

heheheh your mood changes in certain season hehehhee

everyone's getting happier because spring is nearer!! =)

Sun! You're really great! You do cheer ppl up! =)

thx for being here! really appreciate your appearance in earth!

Stay happy everyone! =)

Life's short....

A sudden thought....

Life is so short that there is not enough time for us to feel sad....

so guys and girls!!

let's be happy n cherish every moment that we have!! =) wuhoo!!! =)

Live life to the fullest!! =)

I dun care!

So many readings waiting for me to do bt i end up reading blogs pulak~~ hahahaha

bt i dun care!! blog posts r more interesting!!

hehehehhuhuhuhuhhahahahahahihihihihohohoho

Life continues here =)

Hi bloggy, i'm bak to entertain u now =) i wont dump u bloggy dun worry =) I still love u bloggy =) your d best blog i ever had! =P (well i tink dat's bcox dis is d longest i ever had =P)

Aft high sch is the time whr i start to xperience a lot of changes in my life. =)

I decided to go to HELP University College to do my foundation because they offer really gud psych degree over thr =) and they offered me a scholarship (c, i'm smart eh? XD) In the beginning I decided to stay in a room name Irene. She's a very sweet girl that I met in the edu fair in penang and my mom suggested dat y nt we stay together since we can come bak together as well =) So i was like y not? she's very nice and pretty =)

Life's pretty gud in the beginning and it gt better aft i met wit a bunch of crazy ppl! yes u! Cynthia, Jun and Jo Eve were the first few best friends I made in HELP =) later I met Jing in the ground floor and I can recall the time when I met her! It's so funny!! Can you believe that we're actually from the same high school? haha same age, same sch, same hometown! We knew each other's existence but we never talked to each other bfore! (well u cant blame me cox my form has 600++ ppl and u cant expect me to rmb dat many names eh? plus i'm more to my orchestra dat time so.... hehe) We were like pointing at each other repeatedly (meaning we knew each other) but we jux cant say out the other person's name =P it's jux so funny! haha (am really laughing while typing dis) =P I told her my room number and ask her to visit me when she's free. I can still rmb she's really quiet dat time and Cynthia and Jun had manage to dig out her potential craziness and she turn out to b d queen of crazyness!!! XD Hanging out with Jun, Cynthia, Jo eve and Jing are really really fun! oh ya! n book feng as well XD c! I stil rmb boon feng lo... I stil rmb his existence XD getting lost for the first time and end up having bah kut teh is EPIC (Tham, 2009)!! =P haha I really want to list out every single crazy moment together here!! bt i shall keep it in my mind cox i'm really lazy to type now... hehe i better finishh dis post before my laziness wins (fights bak laziness.... oh oouuu! it's getting stronger! I mux b fast! XD)

The most important thing here is that I met Him when I'm in HELP =) Thanks to Jun and my morale assignment =) And the very fist gift He gave me is JPA scholarship =) It has been my dream since young to go overseas to study and travel and it came through! Thank You my Lord! =) Come to think about it, He didnt give me USA thought I said it in the interview because I can stil rmb when I was really young, I have been saying I wanna go to Canada! He knows! =) I am really grateful for this gift and I will try my best to be the best! =)

Accepting the scholarship means an end to my life in HELP.... Short but exciting!! miss those days so much!! =) all the cooking in the room, hangin out till late nite, insightful chat with jun, crazy photo taking session, bullying Jo Eve and Jing sessions hehe all the sweet memories =)

life's gud =) and it gt better aft I meet You *big smile* (c! i did wat u say jun takayaki! =P)

shall continue soon =)

感触良多

It's been a long time since I blog..... Y? u might b wondering..... thr're times whr i hv the urge to blog.... (believe me, plenty of times) yet, a lot of things that drew me back, mainly: laziness.... no time.... and soemtimes when i feel like blogging when i'm in a bad mood, it stops me cox i felt thr's enough upset post in my blog..... lots of reason that keeps me from blogging......

Well, here am I! it's been a long time sine 17 april 1990..... i felt that my life is changing at a faster pace.... I can still remember when I was young, playing around with my cousin, being ridiculously boyish (trust me, u will believe that i'm a boy when u c me dat time, with my boyish name that contributed to it as well) to primary sch whr i hv no idea wat's happening and y all the kids mux wear d same thing and b in the same room while all the parents are outside the room looking with a concerned look....

I can still rmb my dad praising me for performing well in sch when I was in standard 4....dat time i hav no idea y did he praise me.... i din know i was top ten in sch, i din know till I was in standard 4 that i hav sat for so many exams (wish i still hv the blur attitude right now so i wont feel nervous when i sit for exams hehe) well i guess that was the beginning of me knowing about the usage of figures to determine a person's ranking in the sch, society and life..... (which to me i felt is the beginning of the loss of innocent-ness)

- I can still rmb bout the story my friend told me about a little kid that

choses money over a teddy bear..... ppl nowadays will think that he's smart

to take the money, it's gud to not be naive, he has the chance to b a

successful businessman bla bla bla... however, i felt dat the innocent is no

longer thr.... this is jux my own opinion.... i felt that once you learn about

the importance of money, u will bcome very materialistic, u start to care

bout money, ur no longer the innocent little kid.... (some ppl might think it's

a gud think bt i dun) 童真已失去 了.... y do the little kids need to grow up so

fast.... y not let dem enjoy a few more moments of freedom of troubles that

involves money... y dun let dem hav d time to enjoy their naive life that does

not show the ugly side of human beings.... (i can stil rmb thr's once i get so

digusted of the ugliness of human till i feel so hopeless) i cant denied the

importance of money bt the i jux dun like the ugliness of it..... i dun like ppl

to fight over money..... (bt real life u have to start doing it when u start to hv

no money left...) it really feels shitty to ask ppl for money.... (haha, jux

ignore my weird n lame opinion, forgive my poor ability to express my

feelings) gosh! i really love to crap! XD

Then to the time whr i was in high sch, whr the main reason i go to sch is bcox of the orchestra life i am having. I really enjoy those times, I really love the moment when u gt the victory aft all the hard work that u'd put in before this, I really miss the times whr a concert turn out to b a success aft all the training being put in, I really miss the time travelling together to a place to perform, the time whr we cried bcox of the pressure from parents and from the competition....all that i can say is all the good memories are still the good memories while all the tough times has also become good memories as well!! I felt that i had really lived my high sch life to the fullest! =) though there are still some regrets in my high sch life ( i regret for not spending more time wit my fren dat r not in the orchestra) bt i really have a happy time in my high sch =)

after high sch is the time my transition starts to accelerate.... *to be continued*